Licensed psychotherapy · Private intensives
You built the life.
Come home to it.
Private individual and couples intensives for founders, executives, and the people they love.
The exit isn’t always from the company. Sometimes it’s from the person you had to become to build it.
You’re steady in the boardroom and absent at the dinner table.
Your relationship runs like a well-managed company.
Everyone sees how well you’re doing. You don’t feel it.
You built the life. You just don’t feel at home in it.
The work
You learned to anticipate, achieve, provide, and hold everything together. Those abilities took you far.
But somewhere along the way, being needed became easier than being known.
Through immersive, somatically grounded psychotherapy, we work with the patterns that achievement alone cannot resolve.
Two ways in
About Tania
Before she was a therapist, Tania designed at Sun Microsystems’ Advanced Technology Group and Oracle. For the 17 years since, she has worked with Silicon Valley’s founders, executives, couples and families.
She knows your world because she worked in it.
LMFT · Stanford University · Santa Clara University
Brown University · Rhode Island School of Design
Trained in EMDR · Brainspotting · Somatic Experiencing · Imago · KAP
Psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy
Tania Choi is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.
In confidence
“She curated a space to feel into a traumatic experience I faced over a year ago at work, and allowed me to finally feel safe enough to start to unravel it.”
“Her experience is readily apparent. Yet it is her presence—her ability to show up with you in just the right way—that unlocks what has long been closed.”
“A piece of myself that I lost 33 years ago has finally returned. I feel it—not just as an idea, but as something real in my body.”
From a colleague
“I’ve witnessed Tania to be the kind of therapist that practices what she preaches by continuing to evolve and transform herself and her practice.”
Begin
Begin with a private conversation.
A private, unhurried phone call to talk about what’s happening and whether this work is the right fit. Every conversation is held in confidence.
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Begin with the book. The House with No Mirrors.
Tania’s clinical memoir on how the self is formed, lost and found—and the roles we learn when no one reflects us back. “I wasn’t broken. I was unmirrored.”